Self-Discovery Quizzes

ARE YOU A BLAMER?

1. Your friend begs you to borrow $50 and you give in, even though you know he owes money to a lot of other people. You...

A. Get angry when your friend hasn't paid you back three months later.
B. Don't know whether to be madder at your friend or at yourself for letting him
           talk you into the loan.
C. Realize that you should be upset with yourself for making a bad choice and
           tell yourself not to let it happen again.

2. You get a speeding ticket while driving with your friends. You...

A. Get mad at your friends because even though you know you shouldn't speed,
           they kept saying hurry up.
B. Make excuses next your friends ask you to drive them because you're afraid
           they'll get you into trouble again.
C. Decide that no matter who is in the car or what they say, you won't speed.

3. Your mom asks you to pick something up at a store and you get a parking ticket. You...

A. Hand the ticket to your mom, knowing she'll pay it because you got it doing
           her a favor
B. Tell your mom that you don't think it's fair that anybody should pay the ticket
           because the signs were really messed up.
C. Show your mom the ticket, telling her you'll pay it—and hoping that she'll offer
           to help you out.

4. You fail a big test. You...

A. Aren't going to beat yourself up about it because a lot of other kids failed it,
           too.
B. Can't understand what happened because you studied really hard the night
           before.
C. Get really upset with yourself.

A. Are furious at your friends.
B. Tell the parents the truth—that you only invited a few friends over and
           somehow it got out of hand.
C. Tell your parents you're sorry and ask what you can do to earn their trust
           again.