Self-Discovery Quizzes

For high school and college students: Choose the answers the best describe you and learn about how you’ll handle challenges in the real world.


ARE YOU A BLAMER?
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ARE YOU A GOOD LISTENER?
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WHAT KIND OF JOB SHOULD YOU HAVE?
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WOULD YOU EVER CHEAT ON YOUR BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND?
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WILL THIS RELATIONSHIP LAST?
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By carefully rating yourself in each of the following categories, you can determine your own self scale rating or that of anyone with whom you're considering having a relationship. It's advisable to review your own answers with a trusted friend because we often don't see ourselves as others see us. Rate each question on a scale of 1-10 with 10 being the best and 1 being the worst. On this questionnaire, the maximum possible score is 310 points and the minimum is 31. To assure you of the best chance for a lasting, meaningful relationship, I recommend a minimum score of 221 points.

1 Patient and kind when things don't go his or her way
2 Good listener
3 Asks lots of questions about others
4 Genuinely interested in others
5 Lets others go, be, and do things first
6 Calm, affirmative, and happy demeanor
7 Smiles a lot
8 Willing to try things others want to do
9 Thinks of others' comfort before his or her own
10 Remembers other people's special days like birthdays and anniversaries
11 Practices praise
12 Complimentary
13 Generous
14 Humble
15 Forgiving
16 Appreciative
17 Thoughtful
18 Honest
19 Good manners
20 Quick to help
21 Respectful
22 Willing to compromise
23 Loving
24 Punctual
25 Empathetic
26 Likes children
27 Appreciates nature
28 Exceeds your expectations
29 Good control of emotions
30 Kind
31 Embraces self-improvement

Identify the virtues that will most your life the most and go to work on them.